It has been over a year now since Mommy has slept through the night. Avril has never been much of a sleeper and usually gets up about every 2 hours to nurse during the night... even at a year old. I have been trying to wean off, which has been a difficult task.
My Behavior Analyst hubby has decided to try yet another of his behavior modification techniques on the baby and me, in an attempt to give us both a full night's sleep. I will always wake up when I hear the slightest peep out of Avril. I usually let her cry for a few minutes and then decide to go in and soothe her back to sleep. This almost always requires nursing her. I know I'm not supposed to... but I am weak sauce, as Jesse would say! Jesse has tried multiple times to try to talk me out of going in to get her but I usually give in to her crying, especially when it because full out bloody murder screams. So... Jesse implemented a reward program to motivate me to not give in to the crying, and to stay in bed. Each night I don't go in to get Avril, I get a reward! After a whole week of not going in to get her during the night, I get the ultimate reward... Jesse will take a whole day off of work to spend with us :)
I must say, the results have been fantastic!
Day One:
Avril gets up about 4 times during the night and cries herself back to sleep each time. Mommy wonders if she's doing the right thing. My reward:
Jesse bought me Junior Mints, my favorite candy!
(At this point I am wondering why I am being rewarded for torturing my child)
Day 2:
Avril wakes up about 3 times during the night... crying episodes shorten from about a half hour each time to maybe 20 minutes each time. Mommy feeling a little better about this idea. My reward:
I got to pick out a new pair of sunglasses from Old Navy. I really needed some cuz we somehow manage to lose sunglasses ALL the time! This time I won't let that happen...
Day 3:
Avril only gets up once during the night, and cries for about 5 minutes!! Mommy and Daddy are ecstatic with her rapid progress. :) My reward:
I got to pick out a dress from Old Navy! We are going to St. George next weekend for Jesse's football game so I wanted to get some fun things to wear that'll be nice and cool. Pay no attention to the un-made bed behind me... but of course pay attention to the cute little attachment tugging on my new dress.
Day 4:
Avril sleeps through the entire night... not a peep!!!! This is a monumental day for us. Mommy did not know it was possible to sleep through the night after becoming a mommy. It feels fantastic! My reward:
Jesse brought me yummy Costa Vida sweet pork salad for lunch. Lucky me! Mmmm...
Day 5:
Another night of sleep. So wonderful... My reward:
That hubbin of mine cleaned the kitchen spotless and even trickled his cleaning hurricane to the other rooms. So nice :) I love him!
Day 6:
Avril sleeps like a
baby, scratch that...a sleep deprived mommy! Whoever made up that saying didn't have a baby, or at least not an Avril. Mommies are the real ones who are exhausted all the time and ready for some well deserved sleep! My reward:
TBD... so I haven't decided what I want for my Day 6 reward, but don't you worry, I'll find something!!
Day 7:
The sleeping through the night saga continues... I think we can officially say it has worked now! And the GRAND REWARD....
Jesse is taking a whole day off of work to spend it with Avril and me! We are going to go to Baby Animal Days. Hooray!! I am so excited!!! Woo hoo! This is my favorite reward :)